Friday, May 14, 2010

she's got a boyfriend now. [126]

relationships are difficult.
i don't know what to say because it's not up to just me. i just know that this isn't what i expected. long-distance (it's not even that far away) makes things worse.
i want to rant.
i want to get things out.
girls: don't expect your boyfriend to know what you want unless you tell them and you'll have to remind them until the day you die. or they die. don't complain. it seems like you're freaking out. no one likes a drama queen. most importantly, you deserve the best. God doesn't want you with someone who breaks your heart, bones or disrespects you. don't look for a boyfriend. let God guide you and don;t worry about how long it takes. God wants what's best for you. trust Him. always. don't compromise because you feel you have to. that's not fair for you.
boys: saying i love you in the middle of an argument usually doesn't work. yeah, it shuts us up but the problem is still there. and hanging up the phone doesn't mean thing are cured either. also, respect your girl. she deserves it. and you don't settle either. let God guide you. He knows whats best and you probably don't. pray with your girlfriend. be a Spiritual leader. if you can't be a spiritual leader now, you won't be able to in the marriage and with a family. don't expect her to do it. and prove you love her with more than just words. find out what she likes to do and the things she likes. find out who she is. get to know her.
all of this could go either way but i feel like there's a lack of men being spiritual leaders. young men. i see a lot of men falling short and a lot of women trying to pick up the slack. i don't feel this is what God planned.
in the Bible, it talks about men being the spiritual leader of the family and their wives being their helpmate, supplement, complement. but i don't see that anymore.
where are the legit spiritual leaders?
where are the young men who need to take a stand?

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